so i was talking with erin (surprise)

and she brought up a really good point....

if you see the potential in someone, and strive to encourage them to reach that potential- but- they don't see that potential on their own or don't believe it (as in the space for growth/improvement) then aren't you just controlling them with good intentions?

i'd say yes.

even the best intentions have the *potential* for the most sinister outcomes.

and when i spoke of faults/flaws in the previous blog- i should have added one more word-- that the flaws alone do not make a person...but one cannot be who they are without this flaws. the flaws are a part of what all that person encompasses.

letting go and cherishing sleep....