so i was talking with erin (surprise)
and she brought up a really good point....
if you see the potential in someone, and strive to encourage them to reach that potential- but- they don't see that potential on their own or don't believe it (as in the space for growth/improvement) then aren't you just controlling them with good intentions?
i'd say yes.
even the best intentions have the *potential* for the most sinister outcomes.
and when i spoke of faults/flaws in the previous blog- i should have added one more word-- that the flaws alone do not make a person...but one cannot be who they are without this flaws. the flaws are a part of what all that person encompasses.
letting go and cherishing sleep....